The Names, by Florence Knapp, is my latest “listen” from the library on Libby. I finished it in the airport and on the plane while traveling to see Sister recently. This novel, set in England and Ireland, explores the idea of how a life might turn out differently based on the names we are given. It follows Cora, her daughter Maia, and husband Gordon as their lives unfold in 3 different ways depending on the name given to the new baby boy they have just welcomed into the family. Cora, Gordon, and Maia each have their own thoughts on what would be a good name for the baby. They are unconventional; Gordon says they are continuing the tradition and naming the baby Gordon, just as he is named after his father Gordon.

The story is told in 7 year increments, and as life proceeds and the things unfold we are introduced to other characters that also inhabit the lives of the different iterations of the son. It is not just the son whose life is different based on his name, but all the others characters as they are are shaped by their interactions with the son. The author did not resort to making one path of the son “bad”, one “good”, and one “middle of the road”. Each path was filled with the highs and lows of life, making the reader feel the sadness and joy in each name he was assigned.

This is a hard story at times. Gordon the father is abusive to Cora and everyone lives in the shadow of that. My friends Peggy and Annette also read or listened to this and we finished within a week or so of each other, making it very nice to be able to discuss it, while it is still fresh and very much on our minds. This is a book you WANT to talk about with someone else.

Very highly recommended. Extremely well written and such a different concept for a story. If you can listen, the narrator, Dervla Kirwan is really quite exceptional.

P.S. do you know why you were given the name you have? I never thought to ask Angie until after she was gone why she named me Carol. Just another one of those things you don’t think about asking until it’s too late.

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7 responses to “how a life might turn out differently based on the name we are given”

  1. azcrazy Avatar

    thanks for the book referrals. I’m old enough to be named after the actress, Susan Hayworth. Certainly didn’t live up to the actress…but then, never wanted to be one.

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    1. Carol Mulvenon Avatar

      Susan Hayward – va-va-voom!

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  2. Mary Ann Moss Avatar
    Mary Ann Moss

    I know, but I can’t tell you. Ma made me promise.

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    1. Carol Mulvenon Avatar

      I am going to bring “truth serum” with me the next time I visit… and a list of questions to ask.

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    delightful67b10e57c5

    I was the fourth baby my parents had but the first who survived birth. Because of all of the times her heart was broken, my mother did not choose a name for me ahead of time. So when the doctor asked her my name, she decided on the spot to name me Christine after my dad, Christian. She considered Faith as another possibility. I was nicknamed Tina as a child so we wouldn’t have 2 Chrises in the house. So there are my three possible names! Some of my cousins still call me Tina, but I decided in adolescence that Tina was a baby name and switched to Chris when I left elementary school.

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    delightful67b10e57c5

    I was the fourth baby my parents had but the first who survived birth. Because of all of the times her heart was broken, my mother did not choose a name for me ahead of time. So when the doctor asked her my name, she decided on the spot to name me Christine after my dad, Christian. She considered Faith as another possibility. I was nicknamed Tina as a child so we wouldn’t have 2 Chrises in the house. So there are my three possible names! Some of my cousins still call me Tina, but I decided in adolescence that Tina was a baby name and switched to Chris when I left elementary school.

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    1. Carol Mulvenon Avatar

      Oh Chris: I love the story of your name!
      Carol

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